The problem, I Love You ....

The problem, I Love You ....

Life difficult, what's that?

Teenagers have a new car. Used car, but still good. After a week-berbangga was proud of the car, the car broke down. He also tried to seek out sources of the problem. After two hours mengotak especial, the problem is also not met. Finally, he kebanggaannya push the car to a nearby workshop. Untung bengkelnya are quiet. Then a mechanic in a workshop that can handle the problem immediately. And no more than five minutes, the car is alive and can be used again. Apparently there is only a loose cable.

Brothers, the problem appeared to strike the car difficult to bring the youth. But the car to a mechanic, the problem is just easier. So what is it difficult? The simple, trouble is when a second-class elementary school students have to face two problems junior class, for example. This means, something difficult to say when you are below the ability of the problems that must be faced. Clearly the easy life. Junior high school students who must complete the primary problem will be easy to clear it. So difficult (or easy) is the comparison of the problem and your abilities.

Will you continue life difficult? When you assess your life now, is filled with more ease or difficulty? If you feel you always dirundung difficulties, there is an awareness that must be incurred: The ability you have not increased. With the ability to remain or even go down, then your life will always be difficult indeed. Awareness is important. Because of the way, you have the opportunity to exit from the difficulties of your life. Of course you will be truly out of trouble if you change your actions.

After the difficulties have easy

"After the difficulties there are easy" comes from the holy book. To achieve simplicity, you have to go through a difficulty. Kamampuan is easy when you are more powerful of your problem. Thus, the difficulties in this context is in the process improve your self. Why difficult? Because the quality of self-improvement is something that you do not know. The difficulty stems from ignorance it. Ignorance is not only bring difficulties, but also terrified. Well, when you successfully overcome the ignorance, hardship and fear that, then your ability is increasing. When the capacity increases, you will easily overcome the problems that you face.

Want to continue life easy?

So, if you want to continue living in the ease of ability to keep improving. Atasi difficulties you plan (continue to learn a new ability-ability). That way, you will avoid difficulties that caused a problem that came on your life. How can? Because you have the ability to have more of a problem that is coming. That is one reason why you are required to learn from the cradle to the grave hole. To have the ability to increase and you do not create a problem is to be big enough to make your life.

The problem, I Love You So, for those of you who continue to learn, you will say: "The problem, I Love You" for each of the problems that come at you. If the problem is smaller than the ability, then you'll be happy and easy to complete. If the problem is greater than the ability, then you'll be happy mendapatinya. Why? Because you can learn and make you more ability to increase again!

Motivation: Tips Overcoming feeling lazy

feeling lazy

It seems that many of us have a "disease" procrastinator temporize work. The disease, which actually is a habit, often caused by our lazy grind. Malas up from the bed, go to sports lazy, lazy completed office tasks, etc..

According to the research, is a lazy habit of mental illness arise because we fear the consequences of the future. The definition of the future is not just one or two years but one or two minutes from now. For example when you wake up from the lazy, you will be careful in saying: "One more minute, I will wake up", but perhaps the fact you will berlama-old in bed until the time finally arrived for the ready-ready to go to the office.

Lazy habits arise because we tend to associate the future with the negative perception. You delay temporize tend to imagine working as a batch job to be done in the office. Not dealing with people you do not like, for example

Unfortunately, the delay temporize on the job will eventually be invited because the stress would not want one when you need it. At the same time you may also have many other jobs. In some cases, you may also lose the moment will be when you grow to say "no" for an opportunity, you lazy act as a negative reflection on the things worsen before.

In this article I want to give some tips to overcome the feeling lazy. How can you praktekkan in the workplace or the family environment:

Replace "When the completion" with "My Start Now"

When you are on a large task or project, you should think about The complexity and the task can be completed at imagine. Instead, fokuslah on positive thoughts to share with the large task into parts of the small and finish it one by one.

Say every time you work: "I start now." How to avert this will preclude you from feeling terbebani, stress, and difficulties. You create a simple task in front of you with a positive act. You just focus on one thing at a time, not many things at the same time.

Replace "I should be" with "I Want"

Thinking that you must do something automatically will invite a feeling terbebani become lazy and you do. You will find a thousand reasons to avoid the task. One tip that you can use is to replace "I have to do" with "I want to do." How to think like this will be a mental block with that you do not have to do work that you do not want. You want to do the job because you really want to do, not because forcing the other party. You always have choices in life. Of course, your choice should be made aware of and does not harm other people. The idea is no one in this world that force you to do what you do not want to do.

Thinking that you have to finish the job sesempurna may take you in a mental depression. As a result, you may be lazy started. You have to accept that you can do wrong and should not all perfect. In the context of the work, you have the opportunity to make improvements repeatedly. You can always negotiate with your boss to ask for additional time for reasons that make sense. Start working from the small and simple, and then increase in line with the time. Think that the work must be completed perfectly will make you look the work of the large and complex. I hope this paper useful. Laziness is normal in your life. Because he was normal then he could be. The three tips above can be a beginning to think and act differently than usual so that you do not dissipate the opportunity that came only because it lazy.

Each time the spirit

For Better Living 'Life'

Let's see those great. What makes them (and you) can spirit each time. Some of the principles below will help:

1.awareness

Never watch football games? As spectators, we can see how all the players compete to move the ball, each shift gears, ran, berkelit, survive, and occasionally nyikut opponent. We can see the mistakes the players. Also, still-kehebatannya. We cried happy if the players do wizardry. We also shout - but disappointed or angry - if they make mistakes.

Well, brother can you imagine when you become a spectator, while former football players? If you can do to live day-to-day, it is awareness. The football players have a great awareness that high. Physically, they are in the field, as the other players. But they also move awareness. They were aware of the physical and what they think and feel. They 'monitor' the movement of all players other. That's what makes them in the right position.

When you are fully aware of the self, then you become a host for yourself. You be the leader yourself. You take control of yourself. You are not only aware of the physical, mind, and your feelings. You even aware of the battle in yourself. Yap, in the battle between the self-ego (militancy), and your conscience. You know you are in combat. You spectators so that brush. To whom is your pro you. You have the power to choose one among them, or do not vote at all. The power to choose the Free Will (Freedom Scream / Selecting)

2.Free Will

For example, your visit to my home. I tawari you drink: "They want to drink? Coffee or tea? "What's your answer? When you answer the tea, then you just use the power of Free Choice (Free Options). Likewise, when you said coffee, free choice. You are free to drink like owners, but the choice is limited by my charm.

You called to activate the Free Will, when you said: "If I have a drink juice Durian, I think Supardi objections, right?" Well, your choice is out of bounds that I make. Free Will you have been active.

Free Will is the power of your free to choose things that are good for you. People who have been conscious and free will is active, then it will be easy to choose sides in conscience to overcome and control the ego (militancy). This is two (awareness and free will) make a great people can always survive and out of various difficulties.

3.Objectives of the building.

No goals, no spirit! Life without any purpose will weaken you. You will only undergo routine is boring. I even have a goal not necessarily make your spirit each time. You not only need a goal. You need a burning goal. Goals that make you sleep late and wake shubuh. The goal is very important for yourself. Goals that can make you willingly sacrifice any deminya. So, I set a goal like this, and you achieve the spirit will never die out. The spirit will continue to burn and burn you.

4.Determination

Determination, super strong intention to make you survive in any storm in achieving your goals. Determination is an awareness of the difficulties that will block the trip. With determination, you will be difficulties when the intercept. You realize, with only the best to overcome various difficulties, the desire you will be achieved. Thus the difficulty is to become your personal stronger, more capable, more confident, and more. You also realize that human beings are created to face difficulties greater. That is the belief of God in human largest.

5.Discipline

Discipline means doing things that only true and important to you. No matter whether this is true and important that you like or not. And indeed it is possible that this is important and thus it is not fun, make you suffer and cause pain, physical pain, mental, financial, and social. But discipline truly liberate your soul. Free and independent people who make your spirit each time.

I wake to sleep before shubuh. And this is - initially - is not very pleasant. When the alarm on my HP rant, physically I still want to sleep. Similarly with my thoughts and feelings. "Ah, good dancing again. Five minutes more petroleum. " Fortunately, I realize, and i use for partisan conscience. So every day, I wake up before any disciplinary shubuh. And in each day, I really feel calm and happy. Indeed, when we have successfully overcome difficulties, then return it. And the benefits are truly equivalent.

6.Focus

Focus is a promise to be in your path, whatever happens in that path. When you have chosen to have business selling vegetables, for example, then it remains on track, despite various difficulties flag. When you stay in your path (focus), then you will be experts from time to time. Various difficulties in the path you recognize that you have, and your experts in them. You even continue to do so in the fast. You are menapaki path you from zero. But your level increased. You never return to zero level again. That is the advantage of focus.

Problems with people who do not focus on them is to start from zero again for the various channels that they select. And this is clearly dissipate resources.